They asked mentors...

 

They asked mentors to get  these questions answered.  But really every aspect of your life has questions you need to answer yourself. From your career choice, birth of your first child all the way to how you want to be remembered. 

BTW... What traits do you want in a wife or husband? Your children? 

 
 From your birth till death everything you do or lack of it will all have an effect on your life.  Some pick out the most important and work on just that one area one at a time.  Others tackle a few at a time, or as they come up. Don't ignore them, because a few can be costly mistakes.

 
Everyone decides or not when to have children, while they also decide on what aspects of you family life you plan to pass on to your own children.  Just don't be in a rush enjoy yourself too and those around you.  Don't allow anyone to rush you either.  Think also first before you act because all of your decisions will follow you to your grave. If you don't know what to expect then do some research on it.
Your family is the most important people in your life. If you have none, then get yourself a mentor. The people you meet in your life will either be for, or against you. They will either help you on your journey, or they will throw obstacles in your way. Know the difference. 

 Some areas of your life you will find out regardless if you wanted to or not you are following the path of your parents. 
Just remember to be good to yourself follow your dream(s) if you have any.  Love yourself.

 
Self-love is not selfish; you cannot truly love another until you know how to love yourself.

Don't allow anyone to rule over you like a dog. If you are in a relationship that is bossy, controlling,  or nagging tell them to stop if they don't, move on. You owe them nothing, but they do owe you respect. 

People don't have to like you. However,  Everyone at least owes you respect, or at least a kind word. 

Be your own self and not someone else's image or copy. 

 
If you can't read, write and do simple math like add subtract, multiply and divide then learn it because these will open your door and keep the bad people from taking advantage of you.  If you must, then tackle one at a time.  This lady was 104 years old and she got her high school diploma.

 
Remember that your life is your own and regardless of what some will tell you...

 you have to live your own life, and be responsible for it.   Take care of any issues you have or believe you have early because word is these issues go nowhere until you tackle them.

If you’re searching for that one person that will change your life, take a look in the mirror.

Never jump into a relationship just because they look like they will take care of you. Those type of relationships never last, and your destiny will not be yours and you will be miserable. 

Before you blame anyone else for your adult mistakes or blunders look in the mirror and ask yourself, "what you was doing while it was going on"? 

 No one will remember you from all the good you did, however they will remember you from your mistakes. You don't need to hear about them everyday, you do need to remember them yourself and not continuously like a broken record from everyone else. Move on.  If you make a mistake it is not the end of the world just learn from your mistake and start over.  This works for even bad habits. There is no sense in punishing your future for the mistakes of your past. Forgive yourself, grow from it, and then let it go.

Life doesn’t mean that everyone will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. It means that you won’t let them change the way you see yourself; nor will you stick around for them to destroy you.

Skin color means nothing as Martin Luther King said, "It is the content of their character that matters".  This means a person's moral qualities are more important to an individual than the color of their skin, or anyone else's. Don't let the bad people teach or show you their hate. Say nothing to them at the time if you fear for your life, then move on. Stay strong and keep your morals in check. You owe these type people nothing, so don't allow them to teach you otherwise. 

Remember...  It's rare for anyone on this planet to be the same color as you head to toe. We are ALL unique. 

Below are some examples of absolute moral principles:

• Don't kill.
• Speak the truth.
• Be careful with what you say and do to others.
• Respect the property of others.
• Treat people in need or distress as we would want to be treated if our situation were reversed.

What are the 7 moral values valued the most around the world?

The rules: help your family, help your group, return favours, be brave, defer to superiors, divide resources fairly, and respect others' property, were found in a survey of 60 cultures from all around the world.

You are free, you are powerful, you are good, you are love, you have value, you have a purpose. All is well. Mistakes can always be corrected. If you make a mistake, then get up, brush yourself off and start over don't use this as an excuse to give up. 

Life is rinse, learn and repeat so have courage

Good Mentors ask these eight questions

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